Dwight P Weaver

July 4, 1956 - October 20, 2023
Dwight P Weaver

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Dwight Weaver, 67, passed away quickly on October 23, shortly after arriving at his winter home in Hudson, Florida. He was a true “Yankee Doodle Dandy”, born on the 4 th of July and grew up with his sister; Lynda Koch, and Brother; Richard Weaver on Dudley Pond in Cochituate, MA along with his pack of lifelong friends. He spent most summers in York Beach, Maine, renovating cottages with Dad, surfing, and having fun with his uncles, aunts, and many cousins. He followed his father’s footsteps and joined the Marines right after high school, stationed at New River and Camp LeJune, honorably discharged with the rank of Lance Corporal. Dwight owned and worked for a wide variety of trade businesses in MA
throughout his twenties.

He met and married his wife Janet Rimkunas Weaver 38 years ago and they settled in Wells, ME. Dwight worked for Shaw’s Supermarket Dist. Ctr for 33 years, all while building Mud Meadow Farm, chasing animals, and repairing the greenhouse. Dwight and Janet raised 3 children: Sarah J Gagnon, Stephanie M Weaver, and Harold W Weaver. This fun loving, party man became a “Dad kind of guy”, teaching them essentials like how to change brakes, build a lamp, and troubleshoot a leaky toilet. Passing on a work ethic and devotion to family was a source of pride. He loved showing them as much of this beautiful country as he could, organizing epic train trips, driving miles out of the way to see the world’s largest gnome or Rubik’s cube. He cherished his short time as “Grumpy” with his only grandchild, Liam Gagnon.

Dwight never completely lost his fun-loving party side, however. To meet him once was to never forget him. Family, old friends and new friends gathered or just stopped by the many pig roasts, the Mud Meadow Tiki bar, or the porch of Weaver’s Way Farm to visit, laugh, debate, have a rum punch, and hear a colorful story or two. In keeping with his wishes, Dwight will be cremated and his remains scattered in various locations that he held dear, finally continuing his journey off Nubble Light with his parents, Harold W. Weaver, and Esther M. Perry Weaver. There will be a gathering/party in his honor in the Spring of 2024 to celebrate “Big D’s “love of life, laughter, and family.


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  • November 11, 2023
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  • November 11, 2023
    Cindy Mooradian says:
    Always will remember.

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  • November 04, 2023
    James Burke says:
    Great friend the rope swing at Dudley Pond in Wayland Ma.

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  • November 03, 2023
    Joel Ingalls says:
    Hanging with Big D at the fire pit was always the highlight of the week. I'll miss his stories and strong opinions. Some reason I think heaven just became a little more rowdy.

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    Cy Survell says:
    A great friend to me. His laughter and wit will stay with me forever!

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  • November 02, 2023
    John Kelly says:
    Dwight- what can I say? You were a great friend and the times we spent together will never be forgotten. You were bigger than life and we will miss you- You will never be forgotten and the happy memories will have to see us thru- fly high my Friend - John

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  • November 02, 2023
    Leslie Arsenault says:
    He was quite a guy and he will be missed. I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • November 02, 2023
    Jady says:
    This piece sums up Dwight so well…. “Dwight never completely lost his fun-loving party side, however. To meet him once was to never forget him” 🙏🏻💕 Keeping you all in my prayers…. hold onto all of your memories close. Jady

  • November 02, 2023
    Andrea Lance Weaver says:
    Janet, Sarah, Stephanie, and Harold, I will remember Dwight most through Harold's enthusiastic posts about his growing farm. It's always a bright spot in my day seeing how much Harold enjoys this path that his dad so clearly influenced, and knowing how proud it made Dwight and Janet to have raised a next generation farmer. Sending love and looking forward to offering condolences in person soon, Andrea

  • November 02, 2023
    Pat Arsenault says:
    We were neighbors for a long time and have many memories of Him. I know he will be missed by a lot of friends Rest In Peace Dwight

  • November 02, 2023
    Laurie Lord says:
    Wonderful man I have so many stories of you and you will be greatly missed.